Seduction Progress

I talked to a friend today and told him a little about my journey. And then decided that today I would try some approaches. It was not a bad day considering you could call it Day 1 in many respects.

I went out to some bars and cafes. As I moved around on the bike, I actually did not cross paths with any women while in the short transit between bike and the establishments. Anyway, it was still an interesting day.

First Place

The place was mostly empty. There was a group of 4 outside (2 girls and 2 guys). I should have sat next to them (and would have been next to the girls) but it was freezing outside and I could even see the group shivering!

Inside I chatted to the barman. As I’ve been learning, a “cool guy” talks with anyone and everyone, not just chicks. So I chatted to the owner about some random subject for a bit. To be honest, I’ve never had problems with such situational talking, I know some guy do but it’s never been a problem for me so I didn’t really feel any achievement from this.

Later on a chick walked in and chatted to the guy while I was sitting with my back to the bar. As I turned and passed by momentarily I did not realise immediately that they were hugging or embracing. It looked to me like they were boyfriend/girlfriend.

Some time later, I decided I would try to “break into the set” (I think this is what the terminology is) and I asked some random question of both the barman and the chick. Not too out of the ordinary for me but I was making the conscious effort.

At first the barman was talking to me but then the chick chimed in and I noticed that she was making great eye contact with me and very engaged in conversation. I have no problem making eye contact, I have always enjoyed locking eyes like this.

Then my drink became finished and I was leaving soon but she was very, very engaged. I was beginning to doubt that this guy was her boyfriend because I had also not witnessed any kino except the hug. And they didn’t exactly sweet talk to each other earlier either.

She gave me some good advice on something we had been discussing. I would like to have been more playful but remember that this guy could have been her boyfriend. Same goes for kino although I shook her hand when I left and introduced myself and told her I would see her around. This is likely anyway if you frequent the same places enough, I have noticed.

I also asked what she did here and found out where she works which is actually in the neighborhood I frequent almost every day anyway. I told her I would drop by and say hello, which of course I will in a few days.

Who knows if the guy was her boyfriend or not. It would not surprise me if she is available. I will go for the kino the next time.

Second Place

Here the place was empty. Here they normally have a large room where you can talk easily to others which I have done before several times. Out of luck so I did not stay long.

The bargirl here was hot though. There was no space to hang around to chat and she was always talking with others while serving me so I did not wish to barge in and interrupt these conversations. I could have but personally I consider it rude.

Third Place

I went back to the place I had seen the Germans last night. Unfortunately, it was dead and there was nobody there! Worse still, the most boring bartender in the world was there.

He’s not just boring, he’s also a bit weird the way he seems to look at you. Hard to describe.

Anyway, I thought I would force myself to talk to him. After all, in finding girls I am sure to find some mixed guy/girl groups where the guys are boring and weird who I need to befriend before ignoring and concentrating on the chicks! So this practice would be an investment in my future!

As it happens, he was not all that weird and boring after chatting for a bit.

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So that’s it for the day. I unfortunately did not encounter many other women while I was walking short distances. I hope to do better tomorrow and maybe even try some street pickups. Probably I’ll ask for the time or something, this will also make for finding out if they speak good enough English or not.

Not sure if I will use the line though: “oh that’s OK, I don’t need the time, I just wanted to flirt with you”. This line is from the Lance Mason Spy Videos that I’ve been watching. Mind you, there’s no point in delaying things. The earlier I push my boundaries then the faster I can get to more advanced levels. I just need to throw caution to the wind and go for it.

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