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An Abundance Of Opportunities

September 16th, 2009 · No Comments · diary

Yesterday was one hell of a night.

First I went to go see a room in a shared house. The place was great but also the people were very cool. And I say “cool” in the way that someone like Lance Mason might use the word i.e. a chick-friendly environment.

There were other people checking the place out too, and at one point it was myself with 5 other chicks! Now, it was not really appropriate to start flirting (or maybe it was) but I did try to be more bold and confident.

This is something I’ve been doing the past few days anyway. Sometimes I mumble or almost bow my head in deference. These days I lift my head, expand my shoulders, take up some space and be more relaxed. I also just say what I feel and try to get group conversation going. I don’t mind being the centre of attention.

In fact the other night I was just out socialising with some new friends. Maybe we don’t 100% gel, that can take time as with any friendship. Perhaps there were a couple of strange moments (I was stoned) but at the end of the day, I should not care what people think of me, I shouldn’t be looking for approval. Instead, I should be totally happy within myself. So this is part of the inner game I am trying to develop too.

Anyway, I’d been watching more of Lance Mason stuff yesterday before going out. Mainly body language and kino, the effects of which are pretty crazy as I witnessed myself on the spy cam DVD series of Lance’s (see below, here he pulls a random chick he has never met before and in seconds has his hands all over her). Then later that night I was in a cafe and saw 3 German girls….


In mere seconds, Lance and this girl’s bodies are all over each other, even though they never met before. She loves it!

I did not get even close to making an approach. I was kinda frozen. I knew that even attempting an approach would have been great but for some reason I felt I needed more “time” or “preparation”. I want to know how to pep myself up for one before I do it. Maybe it’s just excuses but it’s only been one day or so since I decided to look back into seduction stuff. I won’t let it wait more than one week though, that’s for sure.

So these 3 German girls were cute and one of them was checking me out too, I think. I actually had some kind of brainstorm of imagining the permutations if I were to go up and talk to them. Every time it was fine and would work out with no problems. I felt like I had the skills to do it, only thing I needed was the balls to start the approach.

For example:

  • take the seat next to the girl on her own, close in for kino possibilities and can still not need to lean in too much.
  • Be expressive with my hands (especially with the likely language problem) and engage everyone.
  • Try to slip in some banter.
  • etc.

So while I may not have made the approach, I feel I am capable of it. Something I may try in future is to stop being intoxicated (at least less often anyway) in bars and cafes, I don’t think this is generally good for approaching and chatting up women.

Another thing I might do is to try and learn more languages. Like many overseas capital cities, here we get a lot of tourists. Some may not have great English so maybe learning the basics of the most popular world languages could be helpful.

Also, as part of my better attempts to go out and be social, there is a kind of bar/club night on one day of the week that I have been told is good so I plan to go there next week and make tons of approaches.

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