Seduction Progress

Learning how to approach a girl in a club is not that hard but of course the application of that is at first more difficult. There are some key differences to this kind of venue that you need to be aware of. Basically, she can be in two places – either at the bar or on the dance floor, let’s look at each in greater detail.

How To Approach A Girl At The Bar

The good thing about the bar is that you can get easier access to the girl. There is less noise and she won’t be dancing so you don’t need to interrupt her.

If she’s on her own and ordering a drink then simply get next to her and be ordering a drink yourself. This side by side position is great for approaching women.

Again, if she’s with friends and they are enjoying a drink at the bar then just do the same thing and say “hello”.

The music will still be fairly loud so you will need to get close to them to be heard. If there are two chicks, then get in the middle of them and communicate to both of them – cool guys don’t leave people out and you will have a higher status for this.

How To Approach A Girl On The Dance Floor

The dance floor is a different game to the bar altogether. It is much noisier here, sometimes so noisy that you cannot be heard even if you are talking into someone’s ear.

I prefer to wait for girls to return to the bar when making my approaches but I know some guys who are successful on the dance floor.

One thing I have seen is for a guy to just take the girl’s hand and lead her off the dance floor. You must do this with plenty of balls of course. Sometimes you can shout in her ear “come with me”. This will be a numbers game and many chicks won’t do it but many will and you have already earned some attraction points with them by the time you reach the bar.

Of course, you can always try to dance off with them or try the “grinding from behind” technique but this is usually the hallmark of a chump and I don’t advise it!

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