Seduction Progress

I’ve been back on the sosuave.com forum that I have read occasionally over the years. It has been around as long as the seduction community. I remember when they were one of the only sites out there and now there are many others such as on RSD.

Basically I got spurred back into this recently after spotting a girl that I like. She has a boyfriend but I’m determined to make her want me. I read time and time again that if you’re attractive to the girl then she is irresistably attracted to you – something that she cannot help. So this is my short term aim but my long term aim is to stop being a friggin AFC and become a PUA.

Looking through the journals of other guys, I am not in the worst place but I am not far off.

For example, I have no problem approaching strangers or chatting to strangers. It comes quite naturally to me and I can have a good laugh. I mean men, of course. As soon as I try it with women, I freeze in typical chump style.

I cannot do cold approaches yet. I cannot even do the eye contact thing until she stares away. Well, most women look away within a few seconds but the few who keep their eyes glued on mine always “win” when I give up!

This is something that has to change. I have access to a lot of seduction reading materials and I’ll be posting my reviews on here so you can see what I’m learning. Then I’ll go out and actually do it. Hopefully I can make some good efforts every day, that is the aim.

I also read something good of a guy on sosuave. He says it is best to “invest” rather than “spend” your time. Basically, this means don’t waste your finite time on things like TV or playing games or at least cut down severely. Then spend more of your time on things that will pay themselves back in future. So this includes reading seduction stuff (just remember to do enough action!), making money on the internet, any other self development stuff. I think this is a great idea and something I will try to be more conscious of in future.

I also want to get to a stage where I am much more social. I will soon sign up for language classes where I am living – this should be great for meeting international people. Also, I like to stay at home and vegetate in front of the PC. I am NOT going to be doing this anymore. I’m fed up of being like a boring old man, I want to get out there and enjoy life!

I may even try a boot camp. There are various guys offering boot camps now. I remember the days when Ross Jeffries of Speed Seduction fame was the only guy doing them! Now all the “gurus” do them. The RSD one is $500 and they also happen to do it in the city where I am living so I think I will go for it. I think it could be transformational. And it is affordable too.

So anyway, that’s it from me for now. Hope you stick around and please comment on my posts as I love to get feedback and advice from you guys too.

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