Seduction Progress

If you found this page through a search engine then already you have some idea that women can be attracted. Attraction is not something you have control over, you are either attracted or you’re not. It’s a bit like being a true fan of a sports team – ultimately you feel it with your heart and you do not make a conscious decision to support a team (even though circumstances might have dictated your interest in the first place).

So, where do you begin? There is an entire global industry dedicated to attracting women. There are literally terabytes of information, hundreds of thousands of pages on the subject. Where do you start? Let me give you a few tips.

Tip 1 – Appearance

Ultimately as you will see later, even the ugliest and most overweight man in the world can pull a hottie if he knows how to. But having a better appearance will give you confidence and also keep as many opportunities open for you as possible (to make a good first impression).

Seriously, ask yourself – do you dress like a cool guy? Look through your wardrobe and throw out at least 20% of your worst stuff. Be brutally honest with yourself. Now go out and spend a couple hundred bucks on some new threads.

It’s not the fact that they are new that matters. It’s the fact that they help you to look cool.

Also, don’t forget about grooming. Pluck those hairs out of that unibrow. Better to go clean shaven for now. Use mouthwash daily. Get a whitening toothpaste. Consider losing just a little weight if you are currently overweight (this will do wonders for your confidence).

Tip 2 – Techniques

I had a friend who was good at pulling women. I asked him what techniques he used and he just said “make them laugh”. Doh, I knew that already! Basically, he and a few other guys just got lucky when it came to attracting women. They know how to but they don’t consciously think about it.

These days, there are many good books AND videos out there that will teach you the specific techniques. Look around this site and you’ll find many others e.g. my post on body language here.

I also highly recommend investing in at least one good course such as those by RSD, Mystery, Lance Mason, David De Angelo etc. You can see links to these sites in the blogroll on the front page of this site.

Tip 3 – Be Yourself

I know it sounds crazy but ultimately you just want to be yourself. Yes, you do need to work on body language, appearance, some “moves” and techniques etc.

But you also need to just be yourself, show your own personality through. You cannot hide who you are, indeed you should be proud of who you are. So don’t lose sight of this.

Case in point – there is a guy on one of Lance Mason’s videos who pulls out all the techniques on a group of girls. The guy had balls to just sit down and chat with 6 chicks but because he just used techniques, the girls learned nothing about the guy himself and as a result they were only a little attracted to him.

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